There is children who are very sociable, who prove to be at ease with others, this indicates that they are sure of themselves. In fact, according to experts, a child who has these characteristics is that he grows up in a serene environment where parents are attentive to their demands and are not about protectors. This allows them to be more sociable and tolerate the momentary separations of their mothers.
It may seem strange, but the more present the mother is with her child during the first year of life, the more sociable the child is with other people and also, being in public, it may even seem to forget her.
This is a very common behavior, security predisposes people not to notice what they have whenever they need it and take it for granted, instead always pay more attention to things or people who are afraid of "losing" . That is, the child has an absolute confidence and confidence that his mother is there and will not be lost, which gives more attention to other people and is more sociable because he knows that they might leave. For a son, the mother is his point of reference to gain confidence and security, you just have to see that when he wakes up at midnight it is the arms of mom (or dad) that comfort him. The mother is the one who gives the baby porridge and he gains confidence with the food he provides. When someone unknown shows up, always observe if the mother agrees before giving her a smile or extending her arms. All these examples demonstrate the confidence that your child has in you and how this growing confidence translates into self-confidence and greater sociability.
Depending on how we behave with our children and how we educate them, we will see the reflection in greater security and self-confidence.
